How to get rid of your child's dirty and bad habits?
It is the responsibility of the parents to teach the child good habits, to give good values. Parents also carry out this responsibility well. Even then, the child has bad and dirty habits that do not go away, due to which parents often have to face embarrassment in front of others. In this article, we are giving some such important tips, keeping in mind that parents can get rid of the dirty and bad habits of the child and also protect themselves from being embarrassed by being embarrassed.
Children are innocent and innocent, winning their hearts with their innocence, but as children grow up, their habits start to change. Many times children learn dirty and bad habits. Children do not listen even after the parents explain. If after refusing and explaining repeatedly, the child is not improving, then it means that the child has got a bad and dirty habit. There are many reasons to have bad and dirty habits. For example- the child starts breaking things in the house due to feeling bad or angry on something, picking up the goods and throwing them around, makes the whole house disturbed, so that he can get out of the mood of his mind. In such situations, it becomes difficult for the parents to accept that the child has already become a victim of bad or bad habit.
Follow these parenting tips
1: Try to know the problem of the child
Whenever the child starts doing the activities mentioned above, as the parents, your first duty is to try to get the child to know why he is behaving in this manner. Where and how did he get such a habit? The child also feels when the parents ask again and again, in such a situation, they begin to grind their teeth, chew their nails, and even get irritated at times. Parents should notice the child's behavior, think about the things that compel him to do so. Once you know the problem, follow the right way to solve it.
2. Try to convince the child
Most parents feel that as the child grows up, bad and dirty habits will automatically disappear. They do not have to speak again and again. While this is not the case, as parents, you should explain the difference between right and wrong. If your explanation has no effect on the child, seek the advice of a pediatrician.
3. Encourage the child to quit habits
If the parents want to get rid of any bad habit of the child, then encourage the child to leave it and keep encouraging him till the child leaves his bad habit. When the child overcomes this bad habit, praise him, praise him. This boosts his confidence and he starts to strengthen his desire to learn good habits.
4. Do not punish the child even by forgetting
5. It takes time to get rid of the habit
Parents should not forget to understand that the child will learn good habits in a day and will also leave bad habits in one day. For this, the parents will have to work patiently. You will be patient, neither you will feel pressure nor will the child.
6. Do not raise your hands even after forgetting the child
Parents often make the mistake of raising their hands on them to stop the wrongdoing of the child, ask something, answer in reverse, shout loudly, show tantrums, make a mistake. They feel that killing will change the child's temperament and behavior. But in some situations such a case turns upside down. The bad habits of killing parents leave a deep impact on the heart and mind of the child.
7: Make friends
One reason for this is that many wellness programs have group meetings. Being accountable to others is a great motivation. You offer help to others and get help from them.
Working with a friend or mentor can help you deal with your bad habits and keep a positive outlook. Being accountable to a friend helps you stay on track.
8: Make the routine difficult
In the above case, where we want to get rid of the habit of watching TV as soon as we return home, we cannot hide the signal. So we make the routine difficult.
If the habit consists of sitting on the sofa after work (gestures), grabbing the remote and turning on the TV (routine), and watching entertainment (rewards), we will make the routine difficult.
We will do something called the 20 second rule. The twenty-second rule states that if you make an action so "difficult" that we like it, we will not do it at all.
In the above case, you can make the routine difficult by enforcing the 20 second rule.
Unplug the TV from the power source. So whenever you come home and sit on the sofa, you will need to get up, turn the TV to the melody and sit on the sofa to watch TV.
Put the remote in another room. Again, the same applies to the case above.
Remove the bats from a distance and keep them safe in the basement. Again, the above count is the same example.
While these examples may seem a bit ridiculous and you don't think there's a way it will never work, I have plenty of research that proves otherwise.
By the way, this is also when you are creating a new, good habit. You simply reject the 20 second rule, making the goal as close / easy as you can to yourself.
Never doubt the slowness of your own mind to perform a particular task.
Last but not least, we can break the habit, rewarding, unsatisfactory
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